About

What's up, guys? I'm Landon Fisher, and Dating Strats is where I share everything I've learned about actually succeeding in the modern dating world. No pickup artist nonsense, no manipulative tactics, just honest advice that works in real life.

My Story

Five years ago, I was that guy struggling with dating apps, getting maybe one match a week, and going on awkward first dates that never led to second ones. I was doing everything wrong – terrible photos, boring conversations, and zero confidence. Sound familiar?

After hitting rock bottom with my dating life, I decided to figure this whole thing out. I studied what actually works, tested different strategies, got honest feedback from women, and slowly started turning things around. It wasn't about becoming someone I wasn't – it was about becoming the best version of who I already was.

Now I'm here to help other guys skip the years of trial and error I went through. Dating Strats isn't about quick fixes or magic bullets. It's about building genuine confidence, improving your overall game, and creating real connections with people you actually want to be with.

What You'll Find Here

Dating App Mastery: From taking photos that actually get matches to writing profiles that stand out, I break down everything you need to know about succeeding on Tinder, Bumble, and other platforms. No more wondering why you're not getting matches.

First Date Success: Movie dates are killing your chances, and I'll tell you exactly why. Learn what actually works for first dates, how to create chemistry, and how to turn initial meetings into genuine connections.

Real-World Dating Advice: Online dating is just one piece of the puzzle. I cover meeting people in real life, building confidence, and developing the mindset that makes you naturally attractive to the right people.

Honest Reviews: Whether it's niche dating apps like FarmersOnly or premium subscription features, I test everything and give you the straight truth about what's worth your time and money.

No-Nonsense Approach: I'm not here to sell you some revolutionary dating system or promise you'll find your soulmate in 30 days. I'm here to give you practical, actionable advice that actually works when you put in the effort.

My Philosophy

Dating shouldn't be about tricks, manipulation, or pretending to be someone you're not. It's about becoming genuinely attractive – physically, mentally, and emotionally – and then connecting with people who appreciate what you bring to the table.

I believe in:

  • Authenticity over pickup lines – Being genuinely interesting beats memorized conversation starters every time
  • Quality over quantity – One great connection is worth more than dozens of mediocre matches
  • Self-improvement as the foundation – The best dating advice is becoming someone worth dating
  • Respect for everyone involved – Good dating advice should make everyone's experience better, not just yours

When I'm Not Writing About Dating

You'll find me at the gym working on my deadlift PR, on the basketball court with my crew (I run point guard and yes, I can still dunk), or out on the disc golf course trying to perfect my backhand throw. I'm competitive about everything, but I've learned that confidence comes from being well-rounded and genuinely enjoying your life outside of dating.

I'm also a firm believer that fitness isn't just about looking good – it's about feeling confident in your own skin and having the energy to pursue the things you're passionate about. Whether that's sports, hobbies, or just being the kind of guy who's fun to be around.

Why I Started Dating Strats

I got tired of seeing good guys struggle with dating because they were following terrible advice or had no guidance at all. The pickup artist community is toxic garbage, and most mainstream dating advice is either too generic or written by people who've never actually struggled with dating.

I wanted to create something different – honest advice from someone who's been where you are and figured out how to turn things around. Not because I'm some naturally gifted ladies' man, but because I was willing to do the work to improve and learn from my mistakes.

Every piece of advice on this blog comes from real experience – either my own or from the hundreds of guys I've helped over the years. I'm not theorizing about what might work; I'm telling you what actually does work when you apply it consistently.

What Makes Dating Strats Different

I've Been Where You Are: I'm not some dating guru who was naturally good with women. I had to learn everything the hard way, which means I understand the real struggles guys face.

No Pickup Artist Nonsense: I don't teach manipulation, negging, or any of that toxic crap. I teach genuine improvement and authentic connection.

Practical, Not Theoretical: Every strategy I share has been tested in the real world. I don't give advice I wouldn't follow myself.

Honest About What Doesn't Work: I'll tell you when something is a waste of time or money, even if it's popular advice elsewhere.

Focus on Long-Term Success: I'm not interested in helping you get one date. I want to help you develop the skills and confidence for long-term dating success and eventually finding the right relationship.

Let's Connect

Dating Strats is more than just a blog – it's a community of guys who are committed to improving their dating lives the right way. I read every comment and email, and I'm always looking for new topics to cover based on what you guys are struggling with.

Got a specific question about dating? Wondering if you should try a particular app or strategy? Hit me up. I might not be able to respond to everyone individually, but I use your questions to create content that helps the whole community.

Remember, improving your dating life is a marathon, not a sprint. It takes time, effort, and consistency. But if you're willing to put in the work and follow proven strategies, you can absolutely turn things around.

Let's get after it.